Why do married men still look at porn?

Ok so this has recently become a question that I have not been able to figure out. Can someone PLEASE help me? I am so confused. The only reason (that I believe it all boils down to) is that they look at it because they are not satisfied. AM I RIGHT?!?
And IF that indeed is the answer than how can we believe our husbands when they tell us that they think we are beautiful?!?! Does that not sound like the BIGGEST contradiction?!?
This is what I was told, “It isn’t because I don’t think that you are beautiful… I want to look because I am curious as to what else is out there.” WHAT THE FRICK DOES THAT MEAN?!?!?!?
He doesn’t know it yet, but all I have to do is check the little “history” button to know what he has been doing all day. So when he told me “I wanted to look… but don’t worry I didn’t.” I know what REALLY happened.
How am I not supposed to question everything about myself now? How am I supposed to just go on thinking that I am beautiful when he has (and continues to) go on looking for pictures of more beautiful women. How am I even supposed to believe that he REALLY means it when he tells me that I am beautiful? How am I not supposed to wonder about who he is really thinking about as we are having sex.

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